Im not transphobic/homophobic but, am I in the wrong for being uncomfortable when a trans person comes into the lockeroom? I just dont want them to stare at me while Im changing.
07.06.2025 00:41
Not “in the wrong” because people can’t help how they feel, only how they act on it. But a little irrational. A trans person is not particularly likely to be interested in your body, except in a vaguely academic “wish I looked like that” way, and if you’re concerned about being lusted after, in a general way, there are more gay people of your own sex (whichever that is) than there are transgender people, so if you’re unnerved by the idea that someone might size you up you should change in a cubicle.